I get a moderate number of requests to meet. That's cool; I love the attention. However, I generally don't meet people I've met online; instead, I find people out at different venues and parties. I am not currently going out to meet people one-on-one, no matter how nice you sound. In the highly unlikely event that I do decide to catch up with someone, there are a few things you can do (and not do) to improve your chances. I know it's along and detailed list, and that it makes me sound like a prima donna, but I don't really care. My criteria for partners are specific and you will need to meet them in order to catch up with me.

- if I decide to go out, check how far I am prepared to travel here.
- I never, ever go out dressed during daylight. I may be prepared to go out after dark.
- be pleasant, polite, and absolutely discreet.
- if I'm going out to party, dance, or play, I don't usually make it known to guys where I'll be on a particular night (although I might arrange to meet a particular tgirl somewhere)
- please pay some attention to personal hygiene, particularly your breath and facial stubble
- have a picture of your face available. I don't meet guys without a face pic.
- be patient; you have to win my trust. I am highly unlikely to meet someone on the first day I have spoken to them.
- my lead time for a meeting is ninety minutes to two hours, and I can't do it any quicker than that. That's simply how long it takes to get ready.
- if you're going to ring me, don't keep your caller ID hidden, because I'll just reject the call (you've got my number, so why can't I have yours?)
- if I am dressing at your place, have a box of tissues handy in the bathroom (and maybe another in the bedroom) because it's really, really hard to dress without tissues, and I simply will not use toilet paper