Ah, you've clicked onto this page... the fact that you're reading this says more you about than it does about me, I think. Nevertheless, grab a coffee and a pillow and settle in.

Some people think that bisexuality is a compromise between two paths, being gay or straight. For me, it isn't- it's more like wandering aimlessly around a field which has corners marked 'gay', 'straight', 'transgendered', and 'today, I don't really care'. This also varies over time (I have tgirl days, hetero days, and the occasional gay day) and according to the people I'm with or am attracted to at the time. For that reason, I prefer the term 'queer', as it clearly suggests unspecified non-straightness, without any implication of duality.

I identify myself as a tart, in the sense that I am promiscuous and sometimes sexually aggressive. Terms such as 'tart' and 'slut' have become disreputable, and I am unclear on why it is good to be a stud but bad to be a slut- they describe exactly the same behaviour. However, describing myself as a tart does not mean that I am indiscriminate in who I sleep with. In particular, it does not necessarily mean that I want to sleep with you.

Sexually, although I look like a girl I still generally play like a boy. However, I do quite like sucking a nice (covered) cock. I quite enjoy new sexual situations and possibilities. I like group sex and I am quite happy to play with groups, in the presence of others also playing, or in front of an audience. I really love being part of a group scene (not necessarily sexual) that evolves by chance and without direction.

I sometimes come down really hard after an orgasm. Occasionally I curl up and go to sleep; at other times I will either ask you to leave (if you're at my place) or I will leave quickly (if I'm out 'n' about). It's nothing personal, and it doesn't mean that I don't like you or that I didn't enjoy myself; it's just the way I am. When at parties, I do really enjoy lying back in that post-orgasmic glow and surveying a room full of people fucking while I'm dressed up.

- If the mood takes me I like to suck but I never, ever roll over
- I identify myself as a tart in the sense that I am promiscuous and sexually aggressive; this does not necessarily mean that I want to sleep with you specifically
- I love group sex
- when in a relationship, I negotiate a set of allowed activities with my partner. This may be different to what I like doing when not in a relationship. Therefore I do not always engage in all of the activities that I enjoy.